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But, it did recently dawn on me and some other friends the other day that a lot of the young black female bloggers who write about relationships and the like are probably single. One never hears about them and their boyfriend, or their fiancee and most certainly not their husbands. Most of the married black women who blog are much closer to 40 than they are to And the slightly older and married black women often portray their marriages as healthy ones whether they are or not. WhatI believe, from my armchair assessment is black women forcing to choose between stark dichotomies: either they fall victim to some Single black female blog and illogical relationship or they fight so hard to not fall victim that they erect some impossible archetype of what a man should be.
So what happens, particularly at this age of around 30, I still think far too many [not all] black women are focused on taking their relationship cues from their equally single girlfriends. Aside from those two women having celebrity status in the black community, meaning that whatever their set of issues are unique to them and not the status quo on this issue, these two women are a prime example of single people giving out relationship advice. The same goes for Hill Harper as well. While you asking Single black female blog relationship questions?
The reason I singled out my black female bloggers is because this seems to be a topic in which they are losing sleep over. There are good black men out there. Look, this post is really just to tell my black women to take a deep breath and exhale. Single black female blog will be alright. Men can do the same expecting their female counterparts to be like their mothers, sisters, aunts just for example. Women taking advice specifically the relationship kind from other single women is a huge, gigantic mistake.
All women need a platonic male friend who they can speak with candidly, so he can tell you how wacky your acting, thinking, etc. It will ultimately prove to be beneficial. But you are right there are plenty chocks out here telling women what to do, but I am wondering why they are single still. I completely understand your post. One does have to be careful were you receive your advice from- evenly yoke, so to speak. Wisdom best comes from an unselfish source.
Whether Black America is ready to recognize this or not — there is a paradigm shift of couples who are choosing to be in relationships, but remaining unmarried. As a blogger, I understand the right I have to my opion, but Single black female blog also understand I have a responsibility to adding what positivity I can to this universe. Unless a Black woman has NEVER had a relationship, she still can have a valuale opinion on the matter without currently being in a relationship. Assuming someone that is currently in a relationship as more apt to having good advice is a mistake, especially since some women think the sheer act of sleeping with someone makes them an expert on relationships.
Bad advice can come from both directions. A healthy friendship healthy—not frenemy or similar nonsense between two women includes the exchange of listening and advice based on similar experiences, past or current. Also, women are generally more conversational, hence such blogs and conversations regarding dating, especially at the age you mention 30 Erik Erikson Stage VI.
It can occur both ways. Certainly the best advice and help for serious matters should probably be taken to counseling professionals, whether they are married or single. Single With No Say?!?!?
Says WHO?! Hello all! I was thinking the same thing about women being single and giving tips on being in a relationships or being married. Thanks for the advice ladies but leave the advice giving to the those who are experiencing marriage from a newlywed or veteran married women. I am in the process of developing a blog about relationships, an Ask Drea J segment, and ideas for great romantic getaways, date ideas and other things.
Check out my blog which will be up and running today. I think that a lot of blacks who are single or married have been exposed to lots of false teachings both inside and outside the church. I had recently attended a church singles bible study and I heard really bad advice from the teacher of the bible study as well as many of the students and they had no clue how rediculous they sounded.
My mom has been married for 46 years and they are still happy. She gives the best advice of all. In Single black female blog own case, I have been married and am now divorced. I have had several proposals after my divorce and part of the reason for these proposals was taking the advice that my mom always gave-and also cooking like she does. However, to generalize that most black female bloggers are single is unfounded.
I agree with this post; however, a lot of single sisters can give advice on relationships because they have seems their mothers, sisters and friends abused, beaet up and just dogged out by black men. I know plenty of black females who are in dysfunctional relationship just so they can say they have somebody.
I guess the point is that everyone has a unique perspective about everything. Besides, everyone relates differently. Black women kryptonite to a relationship. Then mess up other people relationship. Mitrice lapierre bell in NJ. Fat ugly black woman with baby daddy drama giving advice. Like a crack head telling Single black female blog to just say no. I do not agree,with the author of this post. My then girlfriend who ended up being my wife demanded I stop taking advice from unmarried people.
People who are divorced are also not sources of good advice. If they could not keep their marriage then how can they comment.
Older married people are better. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google. You are commenting using your Twitter. You are commenting using your Facebook. Notify me of new comments via. Notify me of new posts via. So to my women, stop waiting to exhale—breath already.
Keep it uppity and keep it truthfully radical, JLL. Share this: Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading Peace, Love and Chocolate Tiffany. Unemployed, in jail and on the downlow and gay…go figure. They turned gay or committed crimes to get away from angry women with daddy issues. Some women still waiting fir night in shining armor. Grow up ladies. Leave a Reply Cancel reply comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:. required Address never made public. Name required.
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